It kind of made me sad on two accounts. One was that I was very sad that we live in an age when someone takes a picture of another person in a vulnerable moment and rather than delete it, and do the decent thing, sells it. And I’m sorry that we live in a culture that commodifies sexuality of unwilling participants…
Not only does it demean those slept with, it demeans the sleeper who becomes reduced to a mere vulgar fraction himself.
Howard Jacobson on men and sexual conquests.